I’m Not Your Little Girl

One of the craftiest strategies the enemy created was trauma! It kills, steals and destroys whatever it encounters. Trauma can leave you dead on the inside while surviving on the outside.  Trauma totally stunted my maturity. There are so many of us walking around in adult bodies, but our minds are still holding teddy bears. Were…

Coming Back Home: To What Really Matters

As a young woman who is  African American I have to be honest, I’ve never jumped on the bandwagon of Black Lives Matter. I’ve come across many people who share their black power with me, But I’m more interested in the Power of Christ.

Running Through The Fog

These last few months have been a blur.  Gulping down cups of caffeine to stay awake. Conforming to sweatpants living.  Stepping on the scale to see numbers I’ve never identified with. Beating myself up for getting a C in English followed by an F in Biology. 

Becoming A Daughter ( Father Less)

“Home is in my presence”  Those five words pierced my life forever.  You want to know why?  Because my entire life  I longed to feel at home.   

Confessions of A Bad Friend

God has a way repurposing our mistakes to make something amazing. So here it goes I was a “BAD FRIEND”.  Maybe the title alone brought you to read this post. Or maybe your like me made mistakes and hurt people you deeply love. Here some tips I learned on how to move forward and how…

From Unstable to Committed.

Growing up the only consistency was inconsistency life was chaotic.  I had no idea of what discipline was all I knew was conditional love and inconsistency. God always has a plan for restoration. God is always teaching things we have missed in my childhood. So if you are someone who missed out on certain things God will…

Clinginess and Fake Id’s

Before God began processing me I was extremely clingy.  If you would like to know just read my post  The Confessions Of A Needy Friend.Children are clingy because they are in need of knowing their safety, love and affection is secure. Once they are secure in these areas they begin to adventure into independence. What do…

Breaking Down Stone Cold Walls

New York City building lights are beautiful but when you live in an gated community called  “ I’ll never let anyone hurt me again”   its hard to see anything hopeful.  Trust me this isn’t a sappy post but an exciting one because I’m sharing  about  moving to a new place in my life called” ” No barriers No Limits, No…

Moving From Behind the Shadow

Processes aren’t easy. I knew God was doing something massive when he began to pull the false identities from under me like a rug.  It started when I looked in the mirror and couldn’t identify the person who was looking back at me. I tried to play it off by saying maybe it’s the new…